Why you should Marry a Web Developer

Having crushes, liking somebody or having friends of opposite gender is not a big deal, but then real struggle pops up when you are planning to settle down. Whom to marry, who is the right guy for you are big question of all the single people. Ain’t it?

Meeting the right man/woman who you feel is the person you would want to spend the rest of your life is not as easy as it sounds to be. When you come across such a person and decide to marry still there are doubts and different type of questions that keep hovering in the mind.

Geeks, nerds, developers and tech savvy are a group of people that girls used to avoid in the past for the fact that they found them boring. However, over the course of years and with the fast paced development in the web world, the scenario has changed. If you have a developer friend who you are falling for or want to settle with but wondering if it’s the right thing to do, then my answer would be yes, go for it! Why? Here are some really good reasons why you should get married to the developer. Check them out!

1. Developers are Extremely Thoughtful

Talk about holiday plans or gift ideas you will be amazed with the thoughtful ideas of your developer hubby. Not only this, you will get to learn how unexpectedly your hubby would remember every single detail of the travel, and special days.


2. They are Low Maintenance

By low maintenance I mean to say you will not have to go for expensive gifts for the special days for your developer hubby. Gift him anything of his interest or something he likes to have, or anything related to his work and he will be more than happy. They are not like after designer stuff, infact they think very less of actually how they look or go for expensive clothes. You know how geeks are!

3. They are Full of Creative Ideas

You might argue over developers being creative as their job is more related to codes and bugs, but then the way they see things and the ideas they come up with are quite different from others. The way they do/see things comes up with ideas of doing things are far different from others.


4. You get your Personal Developer for Life!

Wink, wink! This is one obvious benefit of getting married to a web developer. You all know debugging takes much more time than fixing any other household problem. Your developer hubby will say no to fixing the faucet or solve electricity issue, but will help you debug your computer anytime of the day and that too happily. Its a bonus besides other good reasons to give developers a chance to be your life partner.

5. They are Friendly

Developers might not have many friends, but then the ones they have been amazing. This doesn’t mean developers do not get well with people. They easily get along with people and are quite friendly.

6. Small Things don’t Bother Them Much

The issue that might appear big to you unless you discuss with your nerdy hubby will suddenly look like nothing big and fussy happened. This is for the fact that small things don’t move the geeks, infact they know how to handle things without panicking or bothering too much. In short, they are problem-solving people.

7. They are Humble

Geeks, developers or nerdy people as you call them never fail to appreciate the great work, smart ideas and anything/anyone they like. They tend to give true opinions and are humble enough to learn new things from others, respects relationships and other things in life

8. Fast Learners

Geeks, developers are quite fast in grasping things. They can quickly research, understand things, be it professional, related to the world, ideas and much more.

9. They are Focused

Have you ever seen a developer while working? They are so much focused and unaware of what’s happening around them that they sometimes forget to sip a cup of coffee placed right in front of them. In life too, developers are quite focused and they know what they want in life.


10. They are Loyal

Who doesn’t want a loyal husband? Marrying the developer lessens down the chances of you falling into the situation to hire a detective to spy. He will be loyal to you like his work.

11. Needless to Mention; They are Successful

Last but not the least, we all know, web developers don’t have the dearth of work. For a passionate web developer, there are innumerable projects. I am not at all trying to convince you that people in other jobs/fields are not financially stable, but the probability of being financially unstable for a developer is quite less.


If you have a nerdy or a developer friend around whom you really like, then I guess the above listed reasons are convincing enough to give that geeky guy a chance and take a chance.

Developers might appear to be boring, but they are definitely not! Exceptions are always there, but the fact remains that developers, nerds come in different packages and are simply lovely people to be with. Infact, this nerdy person in your life is sure to make the second phase of your life much more interesting and worth living for!


  1. Miloskov

    May 19, 2015 at 12:17 pm

    Nice article, but also depend of the woman is searching this husband.

    Please explain this to my wife hahah. To my knowledge, she hates computers, technology and all related to it, she does not understand my job, what I do and anything. She thinks Im all day watching a screen and just playing with the computer WTF.

    I’m really not sure why she married me 😀

    • Rajni Setia

      May 20, 2015 at 10:41 pm

      I understand Miloskov, Make her read the article hopefully it will help her fall in love with you all over again and with your computer too. Wink 😉

  2. Natalie

    May 19, 2015 at 9:04 pm

    Looks like my husband made the right decision marrying me ;D

  3. Donald

    May 20, 2015 at 5:56 pm

    It is articles like this that hurt gender diversification in the developer community. This entire article assumes that only MEN are web developers. Try opening your eyes and mind and rewriting this article under the assumption that anyone who wants to can be a web developer.

    • Rajni Setia

      May 20, 2015 at 10:45 pm

      Thanks Donald for stopping by. I agree there are not just men in the field of designing and development but this time the focus was on why woman should marry men who are into the field of web developing. We have plans to come up with another writeup with a vice-versa topic.

  4. Philip Verghese Ariel

    May 23, 2015 at 10:57 pm

    Hi Philip,

    Nice to meet you 🙂

    Very interesting piece indeed!

    But alas! this is for the unmarried! LOL

    The reason for that you spread across is really worth notable for the yet to be married!

    Yes, they are no doubt indeed a help in debugging your computer anytime of the day and that too happily. Yes, It’s indeed a bonus too!! 🙂

    But no worries for those who are already married! 🙂

    In many other areas of their life they will be indeed a great helpmeet for each other!!

    Your caption is indeed eye capturing or attention grabbing!

    Nice speaking to you today via fb

    Keep sharing

    Keep in touch

    Have a wonderful and profitable and blessed weekend! 🙂

    Best Regards

    ~ Phil

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    January 2, 2018 at 12:46 pm

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